When you fall into allowing

This moment to flow through you

This moment gives back infinite connectedness

© Edel O’Mahony

]]> http://www.edelomahony.com/2013/05/23/spiritual-warrior-insights-38/feed/ 0 http://www.edelomahony.com/2013/05/19/spiritual-warrior-insights-37/ http://www.edelomahony.com/2013/05/19/spiritual-warrior-insights-37/#comments Sun, 19 May 2013 20:53:49 +0000 Edel http://www.edelomahony.com/?p=4465 The rapture and awe you feel…

In witnessing this physical world

Is the remembrance

Of your own magnificence…

© Edel O’Mahony

It was created by you

Always reflecting to you

It is your teacher and guide

Are you paying attention to it?

© Edel O’Mahony

I think Harry Enfield’s comedy sketch of Kevin turning into a teenager epitomized the common opinion of the ‘angry teenager’. Yet in all seriousness, this common expectation of children becoming angry and obnoxious is purely down to what people are conditioned to believe. In fact the ‘schooling’ systems both in the UK and U.S were set up with the firm intent (and researched study) of having children in the set amount of years of schooling to produce subservient behaviour. Producing young adults that would be easily controlled through lack of self worth and a fear based environment..

Having brought up my 4 children on my own for some 14 years, I am some what qualified to speak about teenagers! Coming from my own lack of self belief many years ago (hard to believe now!) and totally immersed in the conditioning that tells us parents have to set rules and punishments if children do not follow them, I was very strict with my 3 eldest children and then wondered why as they became teenagers, they became angry, obstinate and reclusive.

I instinctively had a sense I was projecting out my own frustrations, fear and lack onto them through imposing restrictions and rules, yet at the time I was not capable of doing anything or knowing how to change my own circumstances. It was only through my own evolvement that I came to realize why children come to be perceived as anger teenagers.

You see, when we come into these life experiences, we are totally connected to our consciousness, where we are meant to be, loving every moment and living in the now. No thoughts of what went on the day before or what lies ahead, just being present in the now. Through generational and social conditioning we are ingrained with a subconscious programme of fear based conditioning. Children are taught in an environment of competition not creation, pressured into avenues of study or qualifications that are very often the failed desires of their parents, so children begin to move out of alignment with their natural confidence, as they live other people’s life experiences rather then their own.

Energetically this moves them into low frequency, which is matched by the corresponding emotional scale of stress, worry, anxiety, frustration, anger and low self worth.
Hmmm, seems to be a pattern emerging here? These are all the so-called ‘common’ traits of a teenager’s behaviour. Of course this then becomes a continuous cycle of resonating negative emotions which creates the projected perception of negative experiences.

So how do teenagers grow their confidence? More importantly, how do we keep children connected and aligned to their energy to grow up confident teenagers?

I was able to witness the ‘change’ in my daughters and was determined not to have my son needlessly go through the same. I had always been aware of his high frequency and unconditional love and was dismayed to find all this closing down while in the ‘normal’ school system, in fact it was lowering his frequency so much it was making him physically ill.

I took him out of mainstream schooling and let him study at home, with the guidance from a tutor and myself. In seven months he had studied 7 qualifications and passed them including Physics, Biology and Chemistry, he completed and passed his grade 4 rock guitar qualification also. Had he remained in the ‘system’ it would have been another year before he would have sat any exams, if his self confidence had not all but died by then.

The schooling was one aspect. I learned from bringing up my daughters, that the control came from my own reflection of low self worth and trying to control was not the answer. I learned to let go, understanding we are all here to live our unique life experiences; I was merely here to guide them as they created their own experiences.
I fully embraced the creative energy within my son and allowed him to express this by letting him make the decisions for doing what he loved to do. I am very proud of the confident, creative, amazing young man he has turned into.

For any teenagers reading this, here are a few tips to build your self-esteem:

• Turn off your TVs, radios and give up reading magazine that only report negative news. Begin to take control of what you watch and listen to, make it your choice. You decide the films, the music and the information you look at.
• Define who you are. Not as a brother, sister or cousin and how you make everyone happy, instead who are YOU? What are your desires and passions, what is your vision for living a life you love?
• Your strength comes from inside, take time to reconnect with your highest purpose. Your subconscious through social and generational conditioning has been programmed to accept a fear based reality which is keeping you controlled, your consciousness is who you truly are and works only through your highest values and purpose.
• Take up meditation in whichever form aligns with you. Begin to trust your intuition, this is the bridge of communication between your consciousness and your physical form. It is your beliefs that are the signal to your cells to determine the projection of your reality through the frequency you resonate out. If you hold a lack of self worth or self- esteem you resonate low frequency and so create the reflection of this in your experiences. Meditation helps you to connect with your truth.
• Focus on your desires as if they are already here with you, let this become a belief. Your internal environment is the ‘feeding ground’ of creating the external reality. It is your peritoneal lobe in the back of the brain, that projects out the holographic perception of your reality.

There is no reason why children should become disconnected from there natural highest purpose and when you understand that your frequency is determined by your beliefs you can see how important it is to nurture a child’s self esteem and help them to grow up connected, fearless, confident and magnificent.

Intuition is real

Infinite possibilities become real

When you believe in YOU

© Edel O’Mahony

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While working in Corporate Finance, I witnessed first hand the devastating effect that employee sick leave had on organisations. Being head of a department meant I had to manage the added work load of those employees off sick.

It caused more work for my team and myself, especially when the sick leave became drawn out and immeasurable. This causes added pressure for many companies all over the world, losing productivity and money through soaring sick pay costs.

Yet this can all be changed once HR departments, department heads, CEOs and company owners understand the most effective way to stop employees needing to take sick leave.

Taking a look at some statistics for 2009/10 in the UK, there is so much money being lost in companies that is just not necessary.
For instance:

• *Sick pay that employers paid to workers with occupational illnesses and injuries was 960 million. That is without Statutory Sick Pay, which is paid out by the government.
• The loss of output is estimated to have cost between 7,010 to 10,240 million.
• The cost of ill health to the employer is estimated at 7.6 to 11.6 billion.
• The cost of ill health to society is estimated at 11.3 to 17.3 billion.

Having left corporate finance to live my truth and passion, I have since worked with many clients to help them understand the real scientific, physiological reasons why staying emotionally positive  is so important. This allowed me to understand how  those who regularly stayed in negative emotions succumbed to sickness.

You see I work with scientific facts in helping people to understand their body frequency. It is understanding that the human body works through the communication of energy. Scientists such as Dr Bruce Lipton have through extensive study proved that your cells take their signal from your beliefs not your environment. This signal is then transmitted through the body via the nervous system (the electrical system) and determines the frequency at which your body resonates.

Yes I did say frequency. All our internal and external  interaction is done through vibrational frequency. As far back as 1920 we have documented clinical trials of a Dr Royal Raymond Rife who created a frequency monitoring machine that CURED 1,000 patients of cancer!

Since then Bruce Tanio moved this work on, mainly in being able to identify frequency in plants, soil and essential oils. More recently by Dr Konstantin Korotkov with his  EPI Bioelectrography, this has allowed scientists to now determine the frequency of the human body:

• A healthy body is 78 to 83Hz
• Colds, flu and illness begin at 56 to 60Hz
• Cancer receptors activate at 42Hz

So you see the lower the body frequency, the more the immune system becomes compromised and inflamed which is where you see illness develop.

Now let’s relate this to the workforce. Very simply when employees move into lower frequency, they get ill!

Any time I work with clients and I hear the phrase ‘You will have to excuse me, I have a rotten cold that I can’t seem to shift’ I immediately know they have moved their body frequency to below 60Hz, which indicates there is resistance going on between what they are experiencing in their day to day lives and living their truth and values inside.

Why?

All illness, without question is the physical manifestation of resistance in the body. Putting this in energetic terms,  resistance can be many things, it commonly stems from a lack of self belief or self worth, a loss of confidence or feeling out of control.

This can be caused in your personal or business life through stress derived from  living to other’s expectations from their own place of low self worth. Being ‘controlled’ by others  to work or live against your own core values and more importantly through not understanding the foundations of all health, happiness and abundance  financially  or emotionally, comes from defining who you are and living your vision and passion.

How can HR departments, department heads, CEOs and company owners use this to prevent sick leave? It is all about knowledge; when business educates their workforce managers to understand and recognise the body frequencies of their employees and this is will always be  indicated by their emotional state, which correlates directly with the body frequency:

Higher Frequency = Creativity, expectation, optimism, happiness, confidence

Lower Frequency = Contraction, anger, stress, frustration, jealousy, low self worth

It is essential that managers and executive leaders can recognise the signs of their employees going into lower frequency and though this happens on many levels , it can be seen initially, simply by the employee’s emotional place of being. Procedures need to be put into place to allow these employees to have guidance to help them unravel the cause of the resistance and learn how to recognise how their emotions are a gauge to their energetic body frequency.

Sick leave can be dramatically reduced and if effective action is taken can be near enough illuminated. I know, as my personal experience has been no ‘illness’ in over 13 years and understanding the internal work on my self worth was the key.

* Health and Safety Executive “Costs to Britain of Workplace Accidents and WorkRelated Ill Health

http://www.hse.gov.uk/statistics/overall/hssh1112.pdf

That you are separated

From everything and everyone

That you have to deal

With everything yourself

You resist the flow

Of acknowledging your power.

There is no separation

When you live by

Contribution and service to others

You witness the reflection

Of you in others.

Accepting and receiving

Contribution and service by others to you

Creates the full circle of oneness

© Edel O’Mahony

Of consciousness in this world

Expressing and experiencing

Through the physical medium.

A facet of oneness

On an experiential journey

Of awakening and remembrance

There is no separation

There is connection

To everything and everyone

I am you

You are me

We are ONE

© Edel O’Mahony