I know parents try to instil in their teenagers that just having sex with a partner is not the same as making love, as ‘sex’ does not engage respect or true love merely raw passion. Consequently there is nothing wrong with raw passion, it is a very natural emotion.
There is however a fundamental energetic difference between the act of making love or just having sex.
Each will show you what higher frequency feels like as any engagement of passion, getting lost in the moment, letting go of inhibitions moves you naturally into higher frequency. Have you ever wondered why you can believe yourself to be shy and yet in the heat of passion with your partner this all disappears? This is because, in passion you move into higher frequency and so into alignment with your energy essence; which is where excitement, confidence and passion are in abundance.
So if sex or making love are higher frequencies, what makes them different?
You see, energetically ‘having sex’ is actually a selfish act. It to some degree comes from lack as it is the act of receiving and not giving. It is the outcome of lust rather than love and so is always an act that fulfils a temporary need, though is never fulfilling as a long term outcome. It will temporarily raise the body frequency however this is not sustained because there is no real relationship going on as it is an act of self gratification.
The power of unconditional love is the highest frequency and in action it creates the building of energy frequency. We have witnessed centuries of masculine energy dominance, which brought competition, greed, materialism and the disconnection with unconditional love. It meant that there was limited energy exchange as most would be received, though not given back, therefore energetic frequency could not ‘build’. We are now feeling the effects of a new paradigm shift into feminine energy dominance which brings creativity, nurturing and healing. It brings the opening of feminine energy in both male and female which supports the building of energetic frequency.
Making love however is a selfless act, which engages the process of giving and receiving. Energetically as one partner gives the recipient gives back, this creates the building of energetic frequency exponentially. The act creates sustained fulfilment as part of a loving relationship based on contribution and service from one partner to another.
Any time you are wondering how you know what it feels like to be in higher frequency and how you would recognise it, just think back to the last time you made love, there is your reminder!
We can witness this natural building of energy frequency in any act of contribution and service to others as this will always be born from unconditional love and energetically there is no higher purpose. As the shift to feminine energy becomes greater we will witness more openness, caring, sharing, communication and collaboration in all day to day activities. After all unconditional love is all that matters!