When you hold…
Relationships
With an underlying fear
Of loosing them
Of being alone
They will be lost.
When you
Then wonder
What you did wrong
You do not
Honour
Your self worth.
All these feelings
Come from fear
Fear is always
Low frequency
Energy will always
Attract to you
The same frequency
In experiences
It gives you exactly
What you are resonating
Loosing relationships
Perceiving you
Are alone
Experiences and people
Who do not
Honour or respect
YOU.
Instead spend time
To do the work
On finding
The love for you
Within you
Believe in your
Priceless
Value and worth
Understand
You are never alone
Only then
Will you resonate
From the frequency
Of unconditional love
Energy will then
Attract to you
Unconditional love
Abundantly.

I come across this time and time again, when clients come to me not understanding why they find it so hard to get into an intimate relationship and when they do, are not be able to keep it. I often hear the words ‘I don’t like being on my own’, ‘I’m fed up of always being alone’ or ‘I know I will be happy once I have a partner’. Which explains very clearly to me why they are evidencing the perception of ‘loss’.
This comes down to the fact you will always experience what you resonate out and your frequency is determined by your beliefs. So if you believe or hold a fear of being alone you are resonating from a low frequency, energy will always attract back the same frequency in experiences and opportunities and so you remain ‘alone’.

There are several reasons why this belief is a false perception and it is in building your energetic awareness that will stop the cycle completely.
Fundamentally you are never ‘alone’ this handed done conditioning is a man made creation, as the belief of separation keeps people in fear and in fear they can be controlled. We are energy beings first and foremost, living life experiences through this physical body. Energy knows no separation, the energy flowing through the mightiest mountain or the smallest amoeba is the same energy flowing through you, all parts of a whole. When you begin to make your energetic communication through listening within, you build your awareness of energy working through you with tuning into your feelings and intuition.

Back to the science! In holding a belief you can only be happy with a partner or will be unfulfilled and miserable if your partner leaves, is consistently keeping you in low frequency. This is because all low frequency correlates directly with the lower end of the emotional scale*. The emotions related to these frequencies are – stress, anger, anxiety, jealously, lack of confidence and low self worth. Here in lies the key, if you do not believe in your own value and worth, you resonate this out and you will encounter experiences of people or partners not valuing or respecting you.

When you have not learnt to love the amazing being you are, you will always attract experiences of others also in low self worth, who themselves cannot open their heart to unconditional love, instead choosing to exert control on their partner or family as a means of justifying their existence.

The only perspective you should be focusing on is to be all the qualities and values you seek in a partner first. So if you seek someone with integrity, you must live with integrity. If you seek pure unconditional love, you must learn the love for yourself first.
It is once you take hold of your own evolvement, embrace and love who you are; that you build an unshakable confidence in you, from this also comes full awareness of just how connected you truly are. Then you will attract a partner from your place of abundance and true unconditional love.

*As detailed in Path of the Peaceful Warrior Mentoring Programme