It doesn’t you say?

Why then do you do this everyday when you buy into the conditioning of doom and gloom presented from other’s place of lack?

You also do this when you forego doing what you desire to do, to make other people happy, the classic ‘keeping the peace’. You do this when you let other people upset you by what they say, to or at you. Every time you think less of yourself because of other people’s expectation…you do it!

Because of the way our societies have developed, it has led people to be indoctrinated with false standards and expectations and this has been compounded over the centuries by the evolvement and power of media. One of the acronyms used by coaches is:

F- False

E- Expectations

A- Appearing

R- Real

This is where you become entrenched in beliefs that there are ‘set’ standards and expectation society  allows. Where you begin to measure yourself against them and nearly always convince yourself you fall short.

What this is really doing is keeping you in the grip of fear by taking your focus off the power you have, that comes from honouring your self worth, defining who you are and more importantly, loving who you are.

It is nurtured by governments and decision makers (Or should I re phrase ‘controllers’) who perpetuate these false beliefs in entire populations of people. Why?

Because in fear you can easily be controlled. The objective of fear is to keep you in control living other people’s life experiences. Now this may be fine for those with the agenda of control, it is however the fundamental reason for why you are not living with all the wealth, success and happiness you desire. Energetically living this way is causing resistance to who you are truly meant to be.

Let me explain; You are here as an energy being to have unique life experiences through your unique body. So when your focus is on pleasing others or conforming to what will keep others happy, you are in effect living their life experiences also, putting your true experiences on hold.

Now, anyone who tries to control, manipulate or enforce their will on others, come from their own lack of self worth and low self esteem, as to control others justifies their existence. Energetically this also moves them into low frequency and if you allow yourself to be controlled by them, you also move into low frequency.

You will notice, I used the word ‘allow’, I know those of you who go through abusive relationships would question that they allowed this to happen. Fundamentally YOU have the choice to perpetuate the control by buying into it or to change it by learning to empower yourself and step away from the conditioning and fear.

This is why building your foundation of respect, honour and love for yourself is so important. This is how you begin to make the choices that will attract the life you love.

Your core energy always chooses to live in abundance and unconditional love When you let go of the ego that tries to keep you small ,keep you in fear; then you allow the powerful energy being you are to take the lead. Then you take back control becoming the conscious creator you are here to be!