Many of us feel that attracting the perfect partner and soulmate is only possible in dreams and fantasies. That’s not true, it is those who dream of attracting a true soul mate, who believe thatone day they will be with their life partner; that cause the attraction to happen.

Man desires to live with his/her partner…without their soul mate, they feel incomplete. Neither the tranquil calmness of the mountains, nor the pristine glory of the beaches gives us comfort and warmth that a true soulmate can provide.

The unconditional love, trust and faith shared between two soul mates is what life is all about.It teaches us to share, care, love and understand that we need to first be at peace withourselves, love ourselves in order to attract a similar vibration in a soul mate.

Finding your true love isn’t all that hard, provided you believe in yourself and your feelings. The basic ingredients for you attracting your soul mate; needs for you to be confident, honest,trustworthy, respectful and loving. Always re-evaluate yourself regularly. Know your desires and needs, when it comes to settling down with a life partner-understand that keeping your passion for your desires and values will naturally attract the same in a partner.

Don’t feel that only a lucky few are worthy of a true soul mate, every single person on this earth can attract the

perfect match to them. It is only a matter of setting your focus in the right direction. You may be searching all over

for a true life partner, while he/she may be sitting right next to you all the time, patiently waiting for you to remove

your rose coloured spectacles and awaken to their love for you. Having a real soul mate involves sharing things,

loving unconditionally and growing your energy together. A kind of love that a mother gives her child or that a dog has

for its owner.

Be clear about your values and interests in life. There can be certain issues, which according to you is unethical or

wrong. Voice your opinion to your partner, at the same time give a patient hearing to all that she/he has in mind. You

must always follow what resonates with you.

Is total commitment the most important thing for you, where you can both share your life experience together? Would you like to be really loved for your virtues and character, rather than being nothing but a sensual body desired periodically for sex? Cross-examine yourself and yourpartner, ask these disturbing questions and understand what         ‘ feels’right for you.

We humans need a lot of love, compassion, attention, respect, acceptance and even pampering.Many of us jump into a hasty relationship only to be disheartened and heart broken. We feel anger and remorse, and ask why me? Relax, understand that through every relationship come experiences and contrast for what we really, truly desire to make us happy. Love is the highest form of energy, if you set your attention to being with your soul mate…that person who will walk with you, learn with you and love with you, then you are sending out the right vibration to attract your perfect partner.

~~ Extract from my book ‘Attracting Your Perfect Partner’ ~~