When you make a connection that could lead to love
Remember that just because the other person has the same likes and interests
Their values may be on a completely different vibration to yours
In attracting a lover, those of your vibration will show up in your experience
You will KNOW them…your energy will connect with them
When you ‘feel’ this connection they will too.

It interests me to see many people endlessly searching for a partner, find one and them some months down the line have a completely different opinion of them and the ‘rosy glow’ seems to have turned to ‘dried moss’! There is a number of reasons why this happens, a couple are because people are reacting to face values rather then listening to their intuition and they are attracting them same vibrational resonance of their current belief system.
In understanding what you resonate out you attract back, the basis of the ‘law of attraction’ it follows that if you focus on a partner cheating on you (because it happened in your last relationship) or your focus is on you will never find a partner who accepts you for who you are; this is sending out the same message in vibrational resonance and by the natural laws of the Universe it is attracting back the same energy frequency in prospective partners. So these interesting people show up in your experience and seem to have the same likes and interests, ‘hey they must be ‘the one’’! However they have matched your vibrational frequency of lack, so over time you find they begin to try and change you, they cheat on you, ‘what’s going on? I thought they were the one?’ When all they have done is match your beliefs energetically.
This is why it is so important to spend time understanding YOU, before contemplating attracting a partner to you. Once you can confidently accept who you are, love who you are and be sure of who you are; you will then attract the energy in a partner that wholly supports you and is a perfect match.
My book ‘Attracting Your Perfect Partner’ gives a much more in depth explanation and is available here: http://www.pathofthepeacefulwarrior.com/products-page/ebooks/